Men are strange creatures. Martians even. I'm sure you've heard the old complaint that women can't be understood. What about men?? Men aren't as complex as women, IMHO, but in their simplicity they tend to not make much sense.
Example: A friend is cheating on his wife with a girl they all grew up with and is a known ho. The friend also has a 2 yr old son with his wife. That should add to the gravity of the situation, right? I know all about the cheating but have been sworn to say nothing. So when I see the sweet and oblivious wife, I have to hope my eyes don't give it away that I'm hiding a secret from her. I hate it!
And the friend's argument for cheating in this instance? The wife hates sex and therefore the ever-sexual man must get it from SOMEWHERE.
As John Stossel would say, Gimme A Break!
First and foremost there's the health issue. What if the known ho is getting some elsewhere and said friend passes that on to wife?
What about the double-dipping? Could that BE more nasty? (lil' Chandler Bing for ya)
What if known ho gets pregnant and there's the problem of who's your daddy?
What if wife finds out that we all knew about her louse's disgusting infedelity?
I think if wife isn't having sex it is probably cuz the husband is a jackarse and there is far more than lack of sex to worry about. Women are emotional and that plays into every aspect of life.
So...I just asked my husband to not tell me anything anymore about the friend and I don't want to see friend or wife. I already have a hard time mustering up a smile for the cheater. Instead, I've warned husband of the great wrath that will come upon him should he ever decide to follow suit. *smile*